Condom Sex Test Part 4

The things you’ve learned so far: small selection; lots of brands; an oversupply of normal size condoms; the advantages and drawbacks of protection. What you will find out now: what does it feel like when you try it out? Why don’t we like condoms more?

Be bold in lovemaking, but… 

You should always carry a condom with you because it protects against disease and pregnancy. However, you need a certain amount of practice: whether you’re a man or a woman, you need to be confident when using a condom in real life. Don’t be bothered by this fact – instead, be prepared for it. Yes, you need practice, but it ought to be pleasurable to learn the following steps:

1. Putting it on
2. Pleasure
3. Selection
4. Accessories
5. Background

OB/GYN

The expert is in the background; he/she is not physically close to you, nevertheless you do need to be very close. Even if there’s nothing wrong with you, you should see him/her once every year. Use these appointments to undergo screenings and to ask any relevant questions you may have. Choose a person you like; someone who is helpful and easy to reach.

If your doctor observes you all throughout your teenage years, you will know each other very well by the time you begin your prenatal care and give birth – and knowing each other well is necessary for successful cooperation. The basis for good cooperation is trust, and if your doctor knows you well, the trust between you will be stronger. Therefore he/she will have an easier time diagnosing you and help you in anything you need. Some of the main responsibilities of an OB/GYN include the prevention of female infertility and the medical treatment of sexological problems.

Urologist

Men also need a trustworthy helper; someone who takes care of them. A routine urological screening is recommended every year. With these screenings men protect their partners as well: men are often disease carriers; by infecting their female partners, they may cause women to develop dangerous illnesses. A certain percentage of fertility cases is also preventable through regular screenings. A urologist may also help men with various sexual problems caused by condoms: a condom sex test may shed light on certain disorders of the penis as well.

Nowadays, men rarely go to the urologist; they have no knowledge of the available regular screenings. But my experience is that there is a positive change taking place in this regard among men between 30 and 40. Unfortunately, though, in these cases they usually have good reason to see a urologist – but at least they are not putting it off for later.

Female urological problems are also treated by urologists: women are also encouraged to see a urologist if necessary. We often see gynecologists performing uro-sexological treatments with no success, while a urologist is never sought out with the problem.

Sexologist, sexology

Sex is supposed to become more and more complex and colorful with the passing of time: often, though, we see that the frequency of sexual activity is decreasing and the activity itself is becoming more and more primitive. This can be compared to the period preceding an illness. At first we don’t notice anything is wrong; then suddenly we notice problems and symptoms; and only later does the whole thing become painful. And illnesses do pop up their heads: always on time, and in very logical order. In nature, simplification is the process of becoming ill and unable to develop.

People over the age 40 have numerous urological, gynecological, sexological and relationship issues. Divorces seem very interesting, but they never convey the essential information. As for me, I collect a lot more relevant information through gynecological surgeries, men’s health issues, male and female potency problems, and the gap between people’s ideas and the materialization of these ideas. No wonder the area of sexuality is considered to be a very complex one: but it is just as rewarding and beneficial as it is complex.

Do not underestimate sex… Do not expect it to be much better if you do nothing to improve it. This is the most sensitive area of human nature: if you devote time to it, it will improve very quickly; if you neglect it, it will deteriorate rapidly. And if you have problems in any other area of life, you’ll immediately have problems in sex too. When setting up a diagnosis, sex can be of great help to an expert in the early detection of any functional disorders. If I were a doctor in any given field of specialty, this would be the first thing I’d ask my patients: Are you sexually active? How is your sex life? The answers received would be terribly informative.

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