Men, women, and menopause

We know that men’s sexual desire is greatly influenced by their semen production: as long as semen is produced, there is desire; when production decreases with age, there is a decrease in desire too. Besides the period right after childbirth and the period of menopause, is there a similar experience in women’s lives as well?

Maintain your potential.
Men produce a lot of semen as long as they keep training; as long as they can keep fit and perform. When they are not fit, there is a simultaneous decrease in semen and in desire as well. There isn’t enough potential; their skills cannot manifest themselves. Originally, the steps in the process were as follows: desire; an increase in semen production; an increase in inner tension; and a spontaneous, explosive ejaculation. Frequent ejaculation also stimulates the body and provokes a greater production of hormones and of semen. The system may suffer an injury at any point, or it may become defective for any number of reasons. Besides aging, there may be overload, disappointments, and illnesses…

Women’s happiness
There are similar links between things in women’s lives too. Things we don’t pay attention to and things we don’t use with the proper intensity will eventually deteriorate. Something that exists can only be kept up through active work; in itself, it will just vegetate at a low level of activity – it must be attended to and trained at all times. Happiness comes easiest to those that give and receive a lot.

Puberty, pregnancies, childbirth, and menopause: these are all incredibly different states. They are all characterized by extremities as well as widely fluctuating and intense changes in physiological values which consequently produce unstable changes in our general well-being, mood, and attitude to sex. The key is instability: these are periods of transition, so variability is manifested as a basic condition. So, when we experience extremities, we may be happy at one moment and desperately searching for something to cling on to at the next: it’s all about how necessary changes take place inside our body.

Sex has a bad image
Individual development requires freedom, independence, criticism, and an ability to live without boundaries. Young people experience a lot of fear because to them too many things are unknown. The people in their environment often attempt to make them even more cautious, reluctant, and shy – and they often succeed. Girls are afraid of sex; then they are surprised to find, after the first few occasions of sex, that they don’t feel anything special. The image they had of sex was incorrect; the presumptions had been wrong. A lot depends on the world we build up in our imagination. And, if there’s not enough freedom to experiment with our own, realistic ideas, the same things will apply in later stages of life as well.

The right mood is often there; less often there is courage too, but preparedness is often lacking. And someone who is unprepared is likely to stumble at every obstacle. But the same fate awaits those who stick to their hypotheses and wish to confirm them by all means.

Getting wet – physiologically
In women, there is a mystical significance attached to the amount of pleasure fluids. It there’s too little, it’s a problem; if there’s too much, it’s a problem too. But in fact… Fluid secretion is not a voluntary process. A woman who feels good will involuntarily become wet – even without sex. And if she feels good as a woman – well, that’s when she becomes really wet. Technically, she doesn’t need to do anything for this, and still – unfortunately – many women can only get wet if their genitals are caressed. Or, in some cases, only if they do it to themselves.

For them, neither the stimulation of the genitals nor excitement without touching can produce natural lubrication. This is because they are under stress: they are uncomfortable and they try too hard. First there should be general well-being, followed by excitement. Of course, it’s even better if a woman feels good and experiences her own femininity continuously: in such cases, there will always be a certain amount of excitement, and this is a good start. This state of preparedness is a good and necessary state – in fact, it is envied.