Premature ejaculation

What is your time proportionate to?
Your partner’s usual performance is starting to decline? Could this be indicative of a sexual dysfunction? If, on the other hand, you were never satisfied with the length of the intercourse, then there’s no way of knowing whether something counts as normal or as a dysfunction.

Dear women, it’s not up to you to decide how much is enough (although you have a great influence over this). The woman’s needs alone cannot serve as the benchmark to measure one’s manhood; this is a personal issue.

It’s not common practice to measure the length of the intercourse, although the time factor may be one of the indicators of the man’s current state. But not of his talent: he may possibly never have experienced the full extent of what he is capable of – perhaps because he was always hindered in this. What is the appropriate time to be spent inside the vagina, theoretically? If a man is able to go on for more than 30 minutes, there’s no reason to complain: unless he’d been able to go on for a longer time in the past. But even below this level there is great variation among individual performances.

A good man is worth his weight in gold if he’s able to transmit what he has. For this, sufficient time is not the only necessary factor. A quickie may be just as interesting as leisurely sex, but it serves other purposes; other things are transmitted during a quickie. What should a man be training for, then? He has to be able to prolong sex and also to finish it on time, at his own will. If there are no problems with this, then the next thing to consider is whether there’s a woman who can be a partner to him in everything. There’s no sex god without a sex goddess. One cannot make an appearance without the other. This is why first you have to be aware of your abilities and experiment on your own. It’s not a good idea to blame the partner for everything and say, “If he pampered me for a long time, I would also have a bit of pleasure then.” But without a good partner we will never find out what we’re truly capable of.