For young people, everything is new; they contemplate all things with the same enthusiasm. This is a great thing; it is worthwhile to keep up this same kind of interest toward sex even in later stages in life. Edifying and thought-provoking questions are formed in one’s head even at the time when one is not yet sexually active – that is, while one is a virgin. One of my young readers asked me the following question:
How much should I wait with ejaculation?
“There is a certain time period which is needed for sperm to be produced (60 to 90 days). After ejaculation, the quantity of semen and the sperm cells contained in it is reduced. However, while sperm is being produced, is it possible to produce ejaculate which contains no sperm?
In order to produce ejaculate (whether it contains sperm cells or not), is it necessary to wait for a period of 60 to 90 days? Thank you very much in advance for your answer. (A curious guy.)”
Potency-boosting sexual tune-up, or the opposite?
Sperm is continuously produced in the testicles, but its maturation takes longer – even as long as several months, like you wrote. The number of mature sperm cells influences male fertility. However, it has no influence on pleasure; the two have nothing to do with each other. It’s only the total amount of semen that can have an influence on pleasure: the ejaculation will last longer and will be more forceful if there is more semen.
If you increase the frequency of your ejaculations, semen production will also increase after a transition period and sperm maturation may also speed up. In such cases, at first the quantity of the semen and the sperm cells contained in it will be smaller, but afterwards – if nothing hinders the process – a surplus will be produced.
The exact extent of this has not been examined: that is, we don’t know the rate of improvement that a daily, suitable sexual training would produce; but we could examine this rate (by checking every few days, for the duration of a whole month). We don’t have any data on whether semen that is totally sperm-free can develop due to frequent ejaculation, and whether this method could be used as a form of contraception. We don’t believe in the possibility of this because, since sperm production is continuous, new generations of mature sperm keep being “dropped” into the body. I hope it’s all clear so far.
Forced conception
If a couple is unsuccessful in conceiving for years, then the man is made to wait for days in order to be able to ejaculate semen which contains a greater number of mature sperm cells. This ejaculate is then examined. But, for months or even years, the couple had probably had even longer breaks between having sex – which is why they have now sought out a clinic that may help them conceive. Since, however, the mother is also an important factor, and since the majority of men aren’t exactly at the height of masculinity, the couple has to try to conceive for a long time, until they finally reach success – if they ever do. In the meantime, the sexual functions of this healthy man and woman gradually deteriorate because they have sex less often (in order to have more sperm cells to work with) – this, however, decreases their chances in the long run.
In the meantime, the woman may also undergo hormonal treatment, the effect of which may be copied (and even surpassed) through sexual training. As a result of this, more than one of her eggs may mature and she may also develop ovarian cysts. This is not the proper strategy to achieve fertility, and it will eventually lead to a series of – otherwise useful, but in this case, sterile – in vitro attempts.
How can the male and female potential be increased?
In the case of healthy couples, the proper strategy is a daily routine of sexual tune-up. Neither of them should miss out on this – both of them are essential for success. A woman with deteriorated sexual functions is unable to conceive. A man with deteriorated sexual functions is unable to impregnate the woman. What is needed is more potential; greater and more intense desire; a larger quantity of naturally produced hormones; a better load capacity; a better sexual capacity; and more pleasure. The couple must practice every day on their own and together as well – as often as they want. Once they have an increased desire for sex (and each other), they will naturally desire sex with each other more often.
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