Why is premature ejaculation a problem?

We have already published several articles about premature ejaculation, and it transpired that women simply don’t understand this problem. Why is it a problem if a man reaches climax too soon? In fact, is he able to reach climax this way?

I would like to try it Commenter: „I have heard so much about this, and I would like to become a man just for one day to see whether it’s really such a horrible problem to ejaculate prematurely. If someone is truly a man, he has other means as well to satisfy his partner. So I don’t understand: why is it such a big problem???“

Women also have similar sexual dysfunctions, so it’s not necessary to become a man even for a minute in order to experience this. Women can run into similar problems both during masturbation and during sex with a partner. Women who have had such experiences usually expected things to proceed in a completely different way. Just imagine that, for instance, you are masturbating, and you’d like to go on gradually increasing your arousal, and things go on nicely as you’d planned – although at the beginning it was kind of slow and it continued slowly too – and you’re waiting impatiently for it to become much better... and then, bang, it’s all over in a second. And that tiny enjoyment you get is gone in a flash. Well, this wasn’t so hot, and you don’t really feel satisfied either. And afterwards it would feel bad to start all over again – but it’s also upsetting to remain in this state. This wasn’t really an orgasm, just a process that came to an abrupt stop. But men can ejaculate from this too. 

Satisfy her in another way
During masturbation, it’s easier to handle it if something goes wrong. With a partner, though, it’s much more likely that you will become upset. A man who climaxes within half a minute cannot enjoy sex the way he would want to, and he cannot give his girlfriend much enjoyment either. He climaxes way before he could have had a chance to reach much higher levels of arousal.

If he tries certain tricks – like thinking of something else, trying the „pinching“ method, or moving very little – then where is the enjoyment in all this? If he is able to go on for a certain length of time, his dysfunction will become visible too – because of course he does have a certain dysfunction, and all the various tricks only make matters worse.

Of course, he can satisfy his girlfriend in different ways too, but not by using his penis. And this falls far below human capabilities. Men, both healthy and unhealthy, are capable of much more than this, and we can provide targeted help: it may be enough to just try the various tips published on our website, www.orgasmservice.com. And, of course, being diligent always helps.